Part strengths-based leadership book and part self-help book for high achievers, The Authenticity Key is a proven program to articulate who you are . . . in order to uncover what you can become.
Are you a high-performing professional who feels burned out and disconnected from purpose?
As a new leader, are you trying to navigate the fine line between being real and being respected?
Are you on a personal growth journey to understand yourself and your relationships better?
Imagine how your life would change if you trusted yourself to quiet the voice of self-doubt, find your purpose, and show up exactly as who you are meant to be.
Hilary Dawn Rose Bilbrey is a speaker and peak performance consultant whose clients span from startups to Fortune 200 companies. In The Authenticity Key, she empowers readers to claim their innate gifts, leave impostor syndrome in the past, and live an inspired life out loud—at home, at work, and beyond.
In this "best self" book, discover how to
- gain confidence, courage, and clarity around who you are
- define your Authenticity Compass and trust it to guide you in life decisions
- recognize whether you are in alignment with your authenticity
- set boundaries that are true to who you are and what you value
- build deeper connections in your personal and professional life
Fans of self-reflection books like The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins will appreciate both feeling seen and being held accountable for how they show up for themselves and others.
By following your own map—one that aligns with your deepest values—you'll learn to blaze a trail that's uniquely yours, free from second-guessing.
Hilary Dawn Rose Bilbrey is a speaker, peak performance consultant, and trailblazer whose greatest adventure has been blazing a path of courage and authenticity so her children—and all of us—feel inspired to blaze our own. A graduate of the University of Cambridge, Hilary has lived in four countries, trekked across cultures, and even hiked rim to rim in the Grand Canyon in a single day. Whether she's on a mountaintop, on a stage, or in a boardroom, she brings boundless energy, unshakable presence, and the deep belief that vulnerability is a superpower, not a liability.
Hilary is the cofounder of PEQ Performance Consulting, LLC, where she partners with Fortune 200 companies to elevate talent, ignite leadership, and build cultures of trust and bold alignment. She is a self-declared "Energizer Bunny" for purpose and possibility. Watching people light up when they reconnect to their own potential is her favorite part of the job. Hilary is also a Master Facilitator for the Virtues Project™.
When she's not guiding leaders to set their Authenticity Compass and walk their authentic trail, she's hiking in search of soul-filling beauty, laughing with her kids, or enjoying a glass of red wine with her husband, her favorite coadventurer in life. This book is her love letter to the possibility inside all of us.
"Hilary Dawn Rose Bilbrey writes from the heart and soul and allows her authenticity and vulnerability to shine throughout. Her words are magic on each and every page, and I found myself resonating so clearly with her shared experiences. This book is a beautiful gift!" — Dr. Amelia Reigstad, PhD, speaker, founder of The Women Collective, and author of Hello Ms. Perfect: Navigating the Path of Perfection and Claiming Your Identity
"Beautifully written—Hilary Dawn Rose Bilbrey shares her personal journey through trauma and transformation with brave, unbridled vulnerability. She masterfully translates complex concepts of authenticity into actionable wisdom, guiding readers with thoughtful reflection prompts and carefully crafted exercises.This book isn't just about self-improvement; it's about reclaiming your authentic self across relationships, family dynamics, and work environments. The Authenticity Key offers a compassionate road map for anyone seeking to bridge the confidence gap, set their own compass, and blaze a trail aligned with their deepest values. I highly recommend it for those ready to reclaim the essence of who they've always been and step fully into their authentic power." — Nick Demos, Tony award-winning producer, speaker, and coach
"Keep a pad of sticky notes nearby while reading this book. There are so many inspiring and redirecting ideas you will want to be reminded of when life continues to happen! This book is the teacher, friend, and confidante I wished for growing up—the handbook for life that speaks grace and ease into the challenging parts. It is a sharing of wisdom without a show of force—a beautiful invitation to live a more conscious life today." — Joan Steffend, author of . . . And She Sparkled and professional wonderer
"I've known Hilary Dawn Rose Bilbrey for decades, and she's always been intentional about growing her leadership and making a meaningful impact. Her blend of emotional intelligence, real-world experience, and passion for helping others makes her a powerful coach and leader. Hilary's vulnerability and storytelling bring this book to life in a way that's both relatable and deeply inspiring." — Darcy Luoma, CEO and founder of Darcy Luoma Coaching & Consulting, author of Thoughtfully Fit: Your Training Plan for Life and Business Success
"As a seasoned business mentor, I can confidently say The Authenticity Key is a powerful and heartfelt guide to uncovering and embracing your truest self in every facet of life. Through real-life stories and courageous vulnerability, the author offers readers not just inspiration—but tangible tools for living with purpose, presence, and authenticity. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking a deeper, more aligned way of being." — Jen Buzza, founding visionary of WorkElevation, mentor to mentors, growth advisor and instructor at WEBCLIO
